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This sign is afraid of feeling out of control

2022-09-23 06:18:40


看上去是一个小矛盾,吃饭吧唧嘴,最终就会变成屡教不改,没有分寸,不守承诺...有的朋友可能会说,那这处女座也太严格了吧,这肯定是想分手了才会故意找茬的。


This sign is afraid of feeling out of control


处女座真的是一个对感情很认真的人。

I think most of the Virgo friends who will complain about Virgo should be after the breakup, because in the period of time of the breakup, they will feel that they have seen through him and mistakenly think that his previous good is all pretended.

而是处女座觉得这段感情有未来和觉得这段感情没有未来时的反差。

而最影响感情的,一定是那些,处女座在乎但是对方却不那么在乎的小矛盾。

I said it a lot of times, which means I don't listen to how to say it.Usually, even if it is okay, the formal occasion is still going its own way, which means that there is no measure.After agreeing, don't snort, or do not pay attention to it, this is said to be unable to do.


Some friends may say that this Virgo is also too strict, this must be to break up will deliberately find a fault.

Just like repeated teachings, no measure, and no commitment are not caused by bar sniffles.

So Virgo explained this to you, hoping that you will slowly change it and get better and better together.

Virgos look in their eyes and remember in their hearts, and they will definitely not bother about it anymore.Instead, you will feel that you are very logical, very attractive, and very good at dealing with problems.

This is the root cause of the outbreak of contradictions.


This sign is afraid of feeling out of control


说到这一点,很多朋友应该就能想明白,为什么跟处女座相处的时候,一般都是没什么矛盾的,但是在矛盾凸显出来之后,两个人的感情关系就会迅速下降。

Virgo's expression, attitude, and way of speaking have all changed, making people feel very cold and strange.

处女座在恩恩爱爱的时候不会表现出太多的原则或底线,但是在闹了矛盾之后,却会表现出自己有很多的原则和底线。

而是他会在觉得是有未来的时候为感情让路,而在突然意识到可能没有未来了时候又觉得没必要再为对方违背自己的原则和底线了。

一来,这表明你不在乎他,二来又表明你们的三观不合。


In my opinion, there is no need to deliberately maintain Virgo's feelings, for fear of stepping on his minefield.Because he will tell you that he will be happy about what you say and do, and what he will worry about because of it.

只要你记在心里,你就知道该怎么做。

只要你也同样的觉得跟处女座的未来很重要,处女座也就会心甘情愿的为了这个未来,为了这份爱让路,去降低自己的原则底线,去默默地承受一些委屈。

In fact, Virgo is a person who is easily anxious.

尤其是在思考未来的时候,他会忍不住把很多简单的问题想得复杂。然后觉得自己很累,希望能够找到一个理由,找一个信心,找一个动力支撑自己继续往前走。

This torment will continue to consume Virgo's vision of the future. So much so that he would start thinking about why he could not change his future, why he had to tie himself to this person's future, why he had to make himself so tired.

就像我之前说过的,处女座是一个宁愿活得累一点的人,也不愿意活得那么苦的人。

他可以付出,可以委屈,可以让步,可以吃亏,但是他一定要看到这些付出是有价值的。

If you just think two people are happy together, you will be reluctant to break up.Virgos will surely leave without mercy.

但如果你会觉得两个人是有缘分,有感情的,不管结局如何都一定要尽全力,不然就会遗憾终身的话。

处女座一定会给你这个机会,因为他也不想留下遗憾。